Most people don't want to accept themselves, they try to escape from themselves, but that endeavor will always finish with failure.

WHY DON’T WE WANT TO ACCEPT OURSELVES?

We don’t want to accept who we are because we think that we are better, and we do anything that we could believe in that lie. This is a lie that cost very expensive, this lie can cost us wrong and meaningless life.

ACCEPTING YOURSELF.

It sounds easy and simple but it is not. We have real SELF and ideal SELF, the difference between these two makes us sad and anxious, so we choose to escape from ourselves. We escape to trivial things, routines, habits, and social circles, just to avoid facing the truth. Facing who we are. Facing and accepting who we are. While our life is just a journey to accept ourselves


WHAT BOTHERS YOU THE MOST?

Ask yourself openly, be honest, be brave and go all the way. Is there any trait of your personality that you would like to change or improve? If you can change that is fine, but if you can’t just accept that as you can accept the color of your eyes, the color of your hair, accept that is something normal. Acceptance is not fighting with something but understanding. Acceptance is a way to relieve your pressure about something, and nothing can give you inner peace as acceptance.


ACCEPTANCE IS AN ACTIVE PROCESS.

accepting is not passive, that is an active process, in which you understand yourself. When you accept yourself, you end many inner battles, frustrations, worries, and doubts. Acceptance is accepting reality. Reality is what it is, not what we would like to be. Acceptance is accepting your current self, not fighting with yourself, but having inner peace, and starting openly to work on improvement of your personality if it is good for us. Don’t escape from yourself, accept yourself.



         

 By: Essa Saya                                                   

Turbat Kech Balochistan